Love, live but don’t LEAVE…

YOU, how much you love yourself, you live with yourself and you never want to leave yourself. In the same way, it is not a demand but even a ‘law of love’ that if you love something / someone, then you should always live with it and should never leave it, in any case. Thus why we don’t want to live with and we leave them with whom we love; perhaps we don’t love them truly because any deficiency should not be the reason to leave.

Yes, I am talking about husbands who leave their wives with or without any reason (s). I am more particular about those stone-hearted husbands who leave their wives just because of a disease ‘Obstetric Fistula’.  Yap, it is a chronic but curable obstetric / gynecological / reproductive disease of women. According to a survey, each year, around 150,000 women worldwide are affected by this disorder. It is directly linked to one of the major causes of maternal mortality. Around 3 Million women are still untreated in Asia & Africa. Women who are having ‘Obstetric Fistula’ suffer constant incontinence, shame, social segregation and health problems etc. Many affected women have lost their babies during birth and still desirous to have children again. So many suffered woman cannot perform domestic tasks and even they are not allowed to cook food because they are considered dirty, unclean and having very unpleasant odor. Many of them had to relocate to the homes of their parents and relatives. Due to their disability to attend their marital obligations their lives are full of isolation, humiliation and rejection by the community. Around 50% have been divorced, separated, asked to go back to their parents or abandoned by their husbands.

Believe it, it is accepted worldwide that it is a remediable illness and so many women have been cured successfully and resumed to their normal lives. Salute to their loyal husbands who did not leave their wives helplessly, fought with this illness with their wives and succeeded finally. God always save the humanity / world from Diseases and Disasters. However, if these are occurred then we the whole humanity should combat with them as ‘one community’. Thus, on the eve of “International Day to End Obstetric Fistula 23 May”, we should be united to do something according to our capabilities and we should add our efforts to contribute towards United Nations Sustainable Development Goal (SDG-3) which is ensuring healthy lives particularly maternal health. We should always be remembered that healthy society is only possible with healthy mothers.

SAVE WOMEN, SAVE MOTHERS, SAVE HUMANITY, SAVE WORLD…

#fistuladay #whatisfistula #EndFistula #sdg3 #sdgs #Envision2030 #GetFit #womenhealth #maternalHealth #maternalMortality

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‘Manner of Speak’ can increase Pleasure, Peace & Power of Brain

‘Manner of Speak’ can increase Pleasure, Peace & Power of Brain

Pleasant, Peaceful and Powerful Communication build Good Relationships and these relationships lead to Pleasant, Peaceful and Powerful Life. Hence, without a Beautiful Communications, life is colorless. If you want to keep your Life Canvas, always Colorful & Vibrant so use Communication Brushes of most popular but less-available brands i.e. Love, Respect, Truth and Tolerance.

‘Manner of Speak’ is communication equipment that converts good thoughts into good expressions. According to some quotes, observations and experiences, if this tool is used tactfully so it can bring some amazing & positive changes i.e. Pleasure, Peace and Power into your Brain. Thus, it can increase the performance of Brain amazingly. Adoption of following techniques can be difficult but not impossible. As soon as these will be implemented, whether fully or partially; these will definitely bring very positive changes in your life:

1. Don’t Speak

Don’t speak until it is necessary to talk otherwise ‘BE QUITE’. In this way mind will remain relaxed and will not involve in unnecessary working in shape of useless discussions and its effects. Many times, futile discussions ruin your good relationships. This will also help your mind to think over some other good ideas. ‘BE QUITE’ doesn’t means to behave like dull but you should always be excited with glowing smile, through exchanging good ideas, useful information and quality n real jokes etc. Further, the greatest thing is to listen to people grievances and try to device some solutions.

2. Speak Less

Always speak less & concise so that your opinions could easily be transmitted to your targeted listeners. This will also help to minimize the needless working of your mind.

3. Speak Very Carefully

In normal or good circumstances, it is very easy to respond positively but sometimes in abnormal situations, bad feelings in shape of anger, grief or shock are natural. These conditions are actually examinations of your Power, Tolerance and Good Manners that how you control yourself, minimize your bad feelings and respond in an appropriate way. If you are succeeded so it will also save your mind from unnecessary working in shape of bad feelings along with continuous effects.

4. Be Careful, When You Are Not Speaking

When you are silent, movement of good or bad thoughts in your mind are very usual. Good thoughts are good ones that take you to a great idea / positive destination but bad thoughts are always spoiled your brain unnecessarily. So, to defend yourself, always try to reject them or convert them into some realistic and positive thoughts and don’t let them to stay in your brain.

SPEAK CAREFULLY TO LIVE HAPPILY……………..

 

TRANSPARENCY – a ladder to Success

If anything solid is placed between YOU and SUCCESS, you will not be able to see the Success. Now if anything transparent is placed between YOU and SUCCESS, you will definitely see the success. If you will see it then you will focus it and then finally you will achieve it.

Yes, this is my perception about transparency that if exists in your life then it is a definite key / ladder to success. Success doesn’t mean here only a lot of money but real success is sufficiency of everything like love, respect, peace, progress, prosperity, happiness, health and wealth etc. 

Transparency is not a single characteristic but it appears in shape of group of several good qualities like Clarity, Cleanliness, Simplicity, Openness, Honesty, Consistency and a lot more. Imagine if it is appeared in a personality then how much power it can provide to that individual and how much success can be achieved by him / her. Transparency / Openness doesn’t mean here that someone starts sharing each & everything of his personality, to the world but Transparency should positively be reflected in personality, behavior, actions, relationships, lifestyle and everything in life. In short, a personality should be like a transparent glass so that anyone can see through it and personality should be like an open book so that everyone can read it and take benefit from it easily. Transparency also removes the conflict between saying & doing and keeps someone very crystal clear in all his actions.

HURRY UP AND LET’S CLIMB ON LADDER TO TRANSPARENCY SO THAT WE CAN ACHIEVE REAL SUCCESS, PROMPTLY…

Live Like Fish; Let Fish Live

This year on the World Wildlife Day March 3rd, 2019, focus is being given on Marine Species /  Life. It is request for HUMAN for two things. “Live Like Fish” & “Let Fish Live”. First HUMAN should live like a fish, taking & adopting all good characteristics of Fish and the Second one, HUMAN should think & do, whatever he can, for Marine Species / Life. As per the current facts and on-going research, the HUMAN LIFE is very much linked with the MARINE LIFE and any bad impact on Marine Life can badly impact the Human Life. Hence, It is HUMAN’S responsibility that he should take all possible measures to take care of Marine Species / Life because Good Human Life is possible if Marine Life is Good. See below, how these two objectives could be achieved?

Built-in Radar

FISH have a built-in radar that is used for detecting size, shape, direction and speed of objects etc. HUMAN also has more efficient & powerful built-in radar in shape of 5 or 6 senses. If he uses this radar efficiently then he can save him from any negativity in shape of seeing, drinking, eating, listening, speaking, writing, thinking, doing and a lot more.

To save the FISH and other sea animals & plants, HUMAN should have radar like mechanisms for Marine Life that can notify about any Oil or any Toxic / Harmful stuff in the oceans and then immediate precautionary measures could be taken to reduce / stop that deadly material to spread further in the seas. In this way HUMAN will be able to save thousands of Marine Lives.  

Cold-Blooded

FISH is Cold-Blooded but with respect to behavior, it is not, because most of fish species are harmless. HUMAN is Warm-Blooded but with respect to behavior, many of the time, he is cold-blooded that should not be and he should always be harmless to anyone / anything.

To be warm-blooded & sympathetic towards FISH and other sea animals & plants, HUMAN should think collectively, to reduce / stop the continuous dump of sewerage / contaminated water / garbage / industrial waste etc., into the oceans that is consistently killing the marine lives. Some alternates should be thought so that this dumping could be minimized / stopped that will definitely stop killing of Marine Lives.

Best Nutrient Provider

FISH can be called ‘Best Nutrient Provider’, as it provides many nutrients like low fats, high quality protein, omega-3 fatty acids, vitamins D & B2, calcium, phosphorus, iron, zinc, iodine, magnesium and potassium etc. HUMAN cannot be ‘best NUTRIENT provider’ but he can be ‘Food Provider’ and can provide food to poor & needy people.    

HUMAN cannot provide nutrient / food for marine life but he can be a good source to reduce / remove obstacles in the processes of Feeding & Breeding of marine life. Laws should be imposed to avoid HUMAN’s activities that are badly affecting these processes of Marine Life. 

LIVE WITH POSITIVE ADAPTABILITY & RESPONSIBILITY…

#LifeBelowWater #WWD2019 #MarineSpecies #DoOneThingToday  #SDG14 #Wildlife #MarineLife #Ideas&Innovations #GlobalProgress #GlobalHealth #GlobalProsperity #GlobalSuccess #GlobalEnvironment

REAL 10 Years Challenge

‘Wow! You have changed a lot in ten years…’

‘Amazing! You are looking more handsome & smart…’

‘Oh no, you are looking younger than before, have you swapped your snaps???’

Yes, these are the interesting comments & voices you must be seeing & hearing wherein people are sharing their two snaps of Year 2009 and Year 2019. It is an appealing event that everyone is enjoying. Any positive activity / occasion among society should always be promoted for a healthy and happy affect on Life.

It is good to take two snaps and provide a comparison of our Outer Personality but there should be a camera that can take the snap of our Inner Personality and we ourselves can compare the difference of our Inner Personality during ten years. Anyway, till the invention of such camera, we, we can better judge that what good or bad differences have been made in our Inner Personality.

Following are some examples that you can do it yourself, personally to do the REAL 10-Years Challenge / Comparison over Inner Personality:

Truth

How much we have improved ourselves to speak more truth and how much we have avoided speaking lie.

Positiveness

How much we have improved positiveness in our lives and how much we have avoided negativeness. Positiveness and Negativeness are very broader terms here that can be used in Doing, Drinking, Eating, Thinking, Seeing, Feeling, Considering and a lot more.

Good Habits

How much we have introduced & promoted Good Habits into our lives and how much we have tried to reduce & remove bad habits from our lives.

Sincerity…

How much we have increased the sincerity towards ourselves, our family, our friends, whole society and the whole world. Anyone who is not sincere with him can never be sincere with anyone…

In light of above, it is also fact that we are not angles but humans and can commit mistakes. However to avoid these mistakes as maximum as possible, is the key to success and to do goods as maximum as possible, is also a key to success.

HAPPY REAL 10-YEARS CHALLENGE…

A Day can have more than 24 Hours

We have heard, read and followed different Time Management Skills but according to me, this new, unique and amazing technique never ever thought.

Yes, according to this method, ‘A Day can have more than 24 Hours’ but how. Let’s explore. Actually Life is so beautiful and if we live it with so much Relaxation then it could be useless & aimless. However, if we spend it with so much Work then it could be boring & colorless. Hence, neither we should live it like a Wandering Bee nor we should live it like a Hostage. So we have to draw a straight line between Relaxation and Work that can make our life happier, healthier and easier.

Yes, according to this new theory, we should not squeeze our Daily Schedule for 24 Hours but we should keep it flexible that can grow to next day. For example if you have daily 12 tasks to accomplish in a day then do jobs, one by one with full of concentration and relaxation, without any hurry & panic.  Complete it, then move to next job, don’t care about day end and perform rest of the jobs next day or later. In this way sometimes, your schedule will be ended in a day or sometimes in a day or two. Upon completion of schedule, then again start it from job 1 and so on. Believe it, it is my tested solution that is working very well. Hope, you will try it and will provide your very valued feedback soon.

Further, if you further enhance the peace, pleasure and progress in your life then please must read the following:

Life Beautifying Formula       

TIME MANAGEMENT IN AN INNOVATIVE WAY…

How a small Wrapper can affect Life & Economy?

You may have seen some instances wherein companies offer like ‘Bring back wrapper and get discount…’. Yes, this idea is already exist wherein, to enhance sales or to achieve some other objectives, companies sometimes offer their consumers to get back the wrappers of their products and get some discount etc.

Now, if we see this activity in an innovative manner then this small activity can bring a big revolution in Life & Economy. Yes if this exercise is adopted worldwide by each and every company from a tiny wrapper of a candy to a biggest wrapper of electronics etc., then what a fantastic impact can be created let’s see:

Packaging Cost

Whether a wrapper is made of paper, plastic or any other stuff, it has a cost. If any wrapper is returned by consumer to company then, definitely a higher Packaging Cost can be saved.

Recycling Industry

As much as wrappers will be back, Recycling Industry will grow higher and higher.

Employment Opportunities

As much as Recycling Industry will grow; it will definitely kill the un-employment in shape of increasing employment opportunities. Consequently, Economic Growth will be ensured.

Pollution, Health & Environment

As much as wrappers will be returned by consumers, this will reduce the waste / garbage. Further, paper will be saved a lot and trees / forest will be more secured. Hence, pollution will be decreased, sufficiently that will create greater affect on Health & Environment.

Discounts & Savings

As much as wrappers will be returned by consumers; they will be having more and more discounts & savings.

Advertisement & Sales

As much as wrappers will be returned by some consumers; this will attract other consumers towards this product. Hence, it will create an automatic advertisement effect that will increase the sales, definitely.

KEEP CONTINUE, BIG THINKING FOR BIGGER THINGS AND BIGGEST RESULTS…

REAL Year End Procedure

Step 1

On 31 December, download all your memories from your Mind to Heart.

Step 2

Copy good and bad ones, separately into two folders at Heart.

Step 3

Take good memories first and analyze. Two forces made them good, one is Nature and second one is You. Create a Text File ‘Good’ and note down, how much you can make things better for coming year. This time, try to gather and apply all positive approaches / efforts, as maximum as possible.

Step 4

Now take bad memories and analyze. Create a Text File ‘Bad’ and note down, how much you can avoid, making things bad for coming year. This time, try to avoid all negative approaches / mistakes, as maximum as possible that you did previously.

Step 5

Now delete all memories from Heart that were downloaded in Step 1. Because, Goods and Bads are not to spoil future but these are for learning & experience only, to polish the future.

Step 6

For the whole coming year, refer the Text Files ‘Good’ and ‘Bad’ on daily basis to keep yourself on the Right Path.

Step 7

On next year end, you will be having a large number of Good Memories as compared to very low number of Bad Memories. Further, this trend will go higher and higher because you will refer your Goods and Bads on daily basis.

ALWAYS ENJOY EVERY YEAR END WITH A LOT OF POSITIVITY…   

(With respect to Downloading, Copying and Pasting etc. the above procedure is an imaginary and an interesting way to teach but with respect to Life Guidance, the above procedure is VERY REAL…)

Real Saving – A technique to increase your Health n Wealth

Those who save money, time and other valuables; it is called ‘Saving’ but let me introduce an amazing technique i.e. ‘Real Saving Technique’. Yes, real saving is to save Energy & Efforts because Energy & Effort are the real assets of a human and these assets are directly linked to health and life. This technique doesn’t teach you lethargy, dullness and other negative behaviors but it educates that don’t waste these priceless assets in unnecessary activities but utilize the same into productive / purposeful activities to get the utmost peace of mind & body. In this way your normal savings will also be increased because you will save more Efforts & Energy that will be used further to increase your both Health & Wealth. How you can use this technique; some tips are as under:

Don’t respond to anything wherein response is not necessary like Text Messages, Calls, Emails and Other Notifications etc. But respond quickly & gently wherein it is needed because not to respond is big part of bad manners.

Don’t respond to any verbal communication wherein response is not needed. But respond promptly wherein it is required because not to respond is out of etiquettes.

Don’t remember & respond people’s bad attitude towards you. If you will remember & respond then you will waste your Energy & Efforts; you will be like them. Hence, ignore them; very soon those will be your friends due to your humble attitude.

Don’t involve into unnecessary discussions / talks. But don’t keep you away from gentle participation in fruitful debates.

Don’t engage into un-assigned tasks. But never keep you away from helping others.

Hope the above technique will benefit you the most.

MOVE TOWARDS REAL SAVING FOR BETTER HEALTH & WEALTH…

Life Beautifying Formula

Life is fully beautiful or not? Perhaps, it is beautiful with some ugliness, it is lovely with some hate, and it is easy with some difficulty, it is pleasant with some sadness…

However, by adding some positive efforts it could be more beautiful, lovelier, easier and more pleasant. But how? Let me share a Life Beautifying Formula that can bring an excellent change into your Lives. Apply it and feel the difference yourself.

Life has different events, parts and moments and these cannot be fully favorable ever but using this formula, you can beautify your life as maximum as possible. The formula is ‘Pass every moment of Life, considering it, as First & Last moment of your life….’.

Yes, it is proven fact when someone will assume his / her every moment of life, as First & Last moment then definitely / naturally, he will try his level best to pass every moment by utilizing best of his abilities, inputs and resources etc. In other words he will try to make every moment Beautiful, Lovely and Interesting. In this way he will also use maximum level of his tolerance, mildness and forbearance etc. to get the desired positive results. Whether, it is a business meeting, family gathering, travelling, shopping, or any event, he will always try to avoid spoiling any event, both in favorable or in un-favorable situations. Then what will happen, he will decorate every moment of his life and the whole life, will finally become a BEAUTIFUL LIFE.

 LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL, IF IT IS LIVED BEAUTIFULLY & SMARTLY…